• Pray for Prey

    Coming from a parent. I love our kids, although some time I am tempted to put them up for adoption. I seldom allow our kids to go to the public toilet alone.  Even for our twins sons.  I don’t. I noticed elderly love to touch our twins, I especially pay attention when it is the male elderly.  They love to touch them and groped their bodies.  I generally will stop the elderly from going on politely, by pulling our twins back.  Later we will talk to the twins about possible sexual harassment which they may had encountered. As parents, we need to be honest and transparent about everything, including the…

  • Learning about nakedness

    Naked, is a taboo. While my mother does not allow me to see her naked while I was growing up, as she told me, it is not right, because I should not see any woman without the clothes on. I wanted to tell my mom that I have seen her naked when I was born, and same goes for her, she has seen me naked as a child. I used to swim in the public pool in Kuala Lumpur, where I used to encounter naked men bathing, walking about.  I used to think it was strange where these men wanted someone to look at them naked. However, I took nakedness…

  • Teach a Child [the way he should go]

    Glad with the progress of the boys, particularly on how they were doing in their recent first term examination, however, rather disappointed with what they have picked up from their friends while they were at school.  Some could live with but some I think would need SJK (C) Ladang Harcroft to pat attention to the students, or the parents. Whether you agree with me on how a child grows is very much a reflection of the parent?  Yes, because he or she follows exactly what the parent behave, speak, react to panic situation, interest.